Self-Projected Authority

Self-Projected Authority is exclusive to Projectors who have the G Center defined and connected to the Throat, without other deeper authority centers active. Your authority is your own voice expressing your identity. The key is it doesn't activate thinking internally — activates speaking.

You need a 'resonance box' — a person who listens while you talk about the decision. That person doesn't have to give advice; their role is just to listen. By speaking out loud with someone present, your G-Center passes information through your throat, and you listen to your own voice saying what's true. Sometimes you surprise yourself at what comes out.

First: identify your mirrors. People who listen well, don't interrupt, don't lecture. Can be few — no need to have twenty. Second: when you have a decision, call one of them. Literally ask them to listen while you talk. Third: listen to yourself while speaking. The phrase that 'sounds true' — the one making click — that's your truth.

• You're thinking of quitting. Instead of deciding alone, you call a friend and tell her 'I need to talk, just listen.' You talk for half an hour. At the end, you already know.
• They're offering you an international move. You ask your brother to sit with you a while. You speak aloud the pros and cons. You yourself listen to what your truth is.
• You struggle to understand what you feel for someone. You talk it with a trusted friend. Speaking, you clear up.

• In solitude you get confused; speaking you clear up.
• You have two or three friends with whom you 'process' big decisions.
• When you talk about something, you sometimes surprise yourself at what comes out of your mouth.
• Decisions you took in silence tended to be less accurate.
• You need to externalize your thought process to see clearly.