Heart (Ego) Authority

Heart (or Ego) Authority is one of the rarest. Occurs when the Heart Center is defined and connects directly with the Throat, without other higher emotional motors (Solar Plexus) or defined sacral. Your authority is your will — literally, what you want. And it has a particularity: expresses verbally. You have to listen to what comes out of your mouth when you speak of a decision.

Your truth appears when you speak out loud. You say 'I want this' and listen if it sounds authentic or fabricated. You say 'I don't want this' and same. That's why Ego Authorities tend to seem very direct — because their truth is in the word, not silent introspection. Honesty of desire is what guides you. If you're denying what you want to fit in, your authority breaks.

First: speak out loud. If you have a decision, put yourself to say 'I want to do this' and 'I don't want to do this,' and listen which sounds authentic. Second: allow yourself to want. You don't have to justify what you want. Your will is valid by fact of being yours. Third: only promise what you really want to fulfill. Your word is your authority; if you devalue it promising things you don't want, your system breaks.

• They invite you to an event. Instead of automatically accepting, you hear yourself say 'I don't want to go.' You trust that and say no, without apologizing.
• In a work meeting, someone asks you something. You hear yourself say 'I don't feel like doing that.' You say it calmly but without justifying.
• You negotiate a contract. You clearly state what you want and what you don't. Seems direct but your truth builds this way.

• You're direct speaking about what you want.
• You've been accused of 'selfish' or 'too sure of yourself' in the past.
• Your truth clears up when you speak, not when thinking in silence.
• Your best decisions were those you said out loud before executing.
• You keep your promises easily when they were genuine.